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"Femininity is NOT just about the clothes we wear or the amount of perfumes we have in our collection. Femininity IS the vibe we give off that makes everyone’s head turn when we walk in a room. It's the mindset we've chosen to embrace while the world expects us live in our masculinity. Femininity is what we are and who we've decided to become. It's our birthright Hun!"
- BLACK + DAINTY
Hey Love, I don't know if you have noticed but lately there has been a surge in black and brown women desiring to become more feminine. And why not, we have been conditioned to live in our masculine energy for far too long. However, I have come across tons of Youtube videos entitles "Black Girl Luxury Lifestyle, and "How To Level Up Your Wardrobe, Makeup, and Everything Else"(and it'a absolutely nothing wrong with that... I live for those Black Girl Luxury Videos...lol)😁. But I think what most Popular Social Media Influencers fail to realize is that the true essence of femininity is not so much about a women's hair, nails, and flawless faces. I mean, we can be snatched to the Heavens, have box braids that sweep the ground and posses a butt bigger than Nikki's, JLo's, and Cardi's combined but never get the attention we desire from a man. Hunny, if we don't have feminine appeal and femininity habits, then what do we REALLY have? What I've learned is that it's ALL about our feminine mindset.
Having the proper feminine skills and the daily feminine habits can elevate our feminine mindset accelerate our feminine journey and lifestyle. What we need most as Black Women are ears to hear and a willingness to learn. That's really all it takes Hun! If you are ready elevate your feminine mindset...continue reading darlin!
ELEVATE BY SURROUNDING YOURSELF WITH FEMININE BEAUTY
Hunny, I am talking feminine decor, colorful flowers, and fancy furniture. I am talking gold accents throughout the home, dainty room sprays, and SZA's "Good Days" playing in the background. Create a vibe Hun! Surround yourself with beauty from the time you wake up until the time you go to bed at night. Some things that I like to surround myself with are fresh cut flowers weekly, calming music and lavender oil defusers that fill my home with wonderful aromas. Some places that I like to frequent are Hotel Lobbies, fancy Coffee Shops, and Restaurants(even if I am only ordering a lemon water on the rocks...lol😝 ). I have a challenge for you! Google some places that might make you feel fancy. Where are the fancy coffee shops, book stores, and restaurants in your neighborhood? Make a list of places you will frequent this Spring that activates the feminine beauty in you. I wanna see... write what places you choose in the comment section below.
TIPS TO REMEMBER:
✅ Feminine Decor
✅ Calming Music
✅ Oil Defusers
✅ Fancy Locations
ELEVATE BY CULTIVATING DAILY FEMININE HABITS
What are habits? The Webster dictionary describes habits as a usual way of behaving : something that a person does often in a regular and repeated way. Dr. Maxwell Maltz states that "to form a habit, it takes on average 21 Days". So cultivating feminine habits will help to elevate our minds from being regular degular and basic to being fancy and dainty(Hun, there is nothing wrong with being basic, if that is what you want to be). Femininity is really a set of feminine habits that we establish in our daily lives that help make our feminine journey enjoyable. What are some feminine daily habits that you want to incorporate into your life in the next 3 months? Do you wanna start a new Dainty Morning Routine? Or how about a Mid-day Tea Time Routine? One of my feminine daily routines is to have quite morning journal time. Writing down my thoughts and emotions with some soft, soothing music playing in the background.
TIPS TO REMEMBER:
✅ 21 Days To Form A Habit
✅ What Are Your New Habits
✅ Morning Journal Time
ELEVATE BY CONNECTING WITH OTHER LIKE-MINDED FEMININE WOMEN
Our feminine journey is mainly a solo path, but when we come across other black and brown women who are like-minded; it makes the journey much more sweeter. I talk a lot about being secretive with your feminine elevation journey but if you encounter another woman who is making positive feminine changes...reach out and CONNECT! You don't have to announce to the would how you plan become more feminine but to have a sister on the path makes our lives better. Some places that you can find like-minded feminine black women are: the gym, upscale restaurants, nail salons, upscale hair salons, women's clubs, and place like these. I personally like to attend Women's Entrepreneur Expos, and Flower Shows to connect with other feminine women. Let's take action Hun! Where can you find like-minded feminine women who can journey with you on your femininity path? What are feminine women interested in? What kind of entertainment do feminine women like?
TIPS TO REMEMBER:
✅ Connect With Like-Minded Black Women
✅ Where To Meet Like-Minded Black And Brown Women
✅ What Are Feminine Women Hobbies?
So, there you have it! Those are the ways that we can elevate or feminine mind-set and start to live the life that we've always wanted. A hypergamous life will with beautify experiences. Let me know what you think Love!
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