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Becoming A High-Value Woman: How to Set High Standards for Yourself

Updated: Jul 2, 2023



Hey, lovely ladies! As women, we often put everyone else’s needs before our own, and it can be challenging to prioritize our own desires. But setting high standards is essential for our well-being and happiness, as well as the quality of our relationship.

Whether you’re looking to improve your relationships, advance in your career, or simply lead a more fulfilling life, this is for you!


Let’s dive in and empower ourselves to be high-value women who live to the fullest.


Ready to discover the power of your femininity? Schedule a discovery call now and let me help you on your journey.


What Is High-Value Woman

A high-value woman is someone who possesses worth and dignity, which means they are naturally valuable in all the three areas that are typical for a high-value woman. This includes self-confidence, self-respect, and healthy boundaries in her dating life.


This makes her attractive to high-value men, but also to other women who aspire to be like her. Women may attract some people due to their physical assets, but these do not replace the qualities that make them high-value.


Why Is It Important To Have A High Standard?

High standards protect us from low-quality experiences and protect us from not getting what we want out of life. When we value ourselves with high standards and our self-love is on point, people are not going to come at us with low-quality, low-standard behavior.


We are investing money and time and effort into our clothing, looks, mental well-being, and mental game to create a life that reflects what we want. Because if we don't believe that we deserve what we're wanting out of life, it's never going to add up.


How to Set High Standards for Yourself


Don’t spread yourself.

Women should not spread themselves, as it is not common sense among women. Instead, they should focus on the things that bring them a different level of respect and integrity, such as judicialism, marriage being a wife, and being their own definition of what they should be. It is important to not put oneself in a certain situation, as this can lead to a lowering of standards and a lack of respect from those around you.


Low-Value Behavior

High-value women should not accept the bare minimum from men and do not be easily impressed with low-value behavior or attention from men.


As a high-value woman do not allow anyone to waste your time. Express how you feel and why you have to walk away from a relationship that doesn't feel right for your future.


Gain Clarity About What You Want To Achieve

It is important to stay consistent in your goals and avoid helpful thinking traps to prevent sadness or depression. It is also vital to remember that we all have different seasons when we want to achieve certain things and to remain humble but consistent in our journey to know that things will happen regardless of what people say.


Stop Letting Others Walk Over You

You have to learn how to say no when something takes away from your personal goals or important things in your life. When you don't do this, it will be a clear indication that you struggle with low self-esteem. And people will see that as an easy way to prey on you for their personal gain. Always be stern about who you are, and what you're going to accept when it comes to your personal lifestyle.


Surround Yourself Around More Empowering Women

Empowering women can help them set high standards and maintain their mental health. If they have friends who expect low value, they may become the next friend who accepts low-value behavior. The sole purpose of making friends is to use them for inspiration to keep their personal status high and overall health.


Becomes Stern In Your Decision Making

If something's unnecessary in your life and is keeping you back from reaching a big goal, it's just best to eliminate it.


Hold Yourself Accountable

You can make people's lives a lot easier by being more stern about your decision-making when it comes to knowing what you expect from them.


Start Treating Yourself Like You Are The Prize

High standards are essential for a feminine woman to attract the kind of friends and love life they deserve. It is okay to wear luxury or high-quality items, dress up, go on trips to exotic places, and enjoy pampering yourself.


Women should stay away from people who make them feel like they should fit into a bubble. High standards are essential to never normalize living in a struggle or having a struggle with love.


Are you ready to take your femininity to the next level? Let’s do it together! Schedule a discovery call with me and explore some proven strategies to help you achieve your goal.



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